Have you been lucky enough?
To find a friend whom you seem to have known since forever?
To meet and click immediately?
To open your mouths to say the same words at the same time?
To know that when you feel not so happy with the world your friend will be there to cheer you up and make you smile.
I have been lucky enough.

For a darling , darling friend. One who makes me laugh like a loon, one who chatters non-stop making me wonder if this is my twin from a previous birth .
Now I know why 14 something days were so tough. And how you felt. Because these four days seem as if they wont ever end.
Whom do I share all the nonsense with?
And its all nonsense .Only you are too much of a sweetheart to ever point that out.
And then those idiotic mails that I keep sending you
And then you reply back and we wonder if we both have seriously lost it.
And what about those times when we both mail each other at the EXACT same time? Uncanny! ![]()

Yeah accept it. You really can’t ![]()
Why would you want to lose this vividh bharti chatterbox?
And then sometimes when we both write the exact same thing ![]()
I bet that would be like both of us opening our mouths to say the same thing at the same time.
Actually that has happened too ![]()
Didn’t know that two people could talk that much.
Gawd!It was crazy! Ma thought I had lost it! ![]()
After the dumbfounded silence and the shrieking that is
I am possessive about you . But you know that
You know what I am missing?
I am missing the way you soothe my stupid fears.
I am missing the way you wish me good morning
I am missing the way we pass off our nonsense chatter as things that are nothing short of national importance
I am missing your words that guide. Words that ask me to take a second look at things when I get too stubborn.
I am missing your howlarious (your word na?) comments at the ‘home’ of close friends .
But most of all I am missing you
Ushus is missing you too
The most important reason as to why I blog is you.
It didn’t start out that way. But it is now.
We all give our love and affection to many people in our life.
But its only the lucky few who receive back that love a thousand times over.
I know I am one of the lucky ones.
*touchwood*

thinking about it
*ahem* solemn face
NO!No!I will jump in right behind you ![]()
Honest!
You are my other half ![]()
*move aside Dhiren*
Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. “Pooh!” he whispered. “Yes, Piglet?” “Nothing,” said Piglet, taking Pooh’s paw. “I just wanted to be sure of you.” ~A.A. Milne
And I am. Damn Sure
(((((((((hugs)))))))))))








me first
me-
yeah you are!
enjoy it before all the other contenders come running after you
awww…such a sweet post.
one time u are away and Solilo posts about you and now when she is holidaying, you are missing her..
1 or 2 days and she ll be back and u both can catch up
me- I am missing her coz this four day wait sucks!
looking forward to her coming back
thanks Mystery
and now i want to see both of you together!! really, reading about u 2 on each others blog is surely quite nice..
me- aww thanks Iya
((hugs))
the day that happens we will post pics
awww
so cute friends like this are a treasure for a lifetime
kala tikka for both of u


me- ((((hugs))Thanks for the kala tikka Monika
really needed
Solilo is a blessing as a friend
first again m i ???
me-lol!!! Dhiren you actually mailed to ask me if you were first!
but adorable
…you are crazy!
i m missing her too… for obvious reasons…. !!! he he he
me- *looks innocent* what obvious reasons?
you will have to deal with Indyeah before you break up our jodi

all of us are missing her na? no Solilo-isms, no rofl kinda comments
Solilo plss DONT extend your trip
Ha…ha..ha.. Oye! don’t forget restraining order.
me-
Dhirenbhai ab kya hoga?
yeh duniya…. yeh mehfil….
mere kaam ki nahi…. mere kaam ki nahi….
me-arre!!What happened?
Who troubled you?sing some nice ,peppy song na!
Owww!! Such a touching tribute!!
Long live such friendships! It gives hope to ppl like me
me- *touchwood*
you are a darling friend already gurl
(((hugs)))Winnie
first
me-
forget trying to come on top !!! rakesh !!… tee hee…
me- *ahem*
you and your sentences DHirenbhai
in future I will let you know when I am going to publish a new post okay?
Yup, not my cup of tea I guess…
What’s going on here??? Jodis are changing with every passing day?
Never mind, OG has no need to be jealous anymore since Dhiren is free
he he…
On a separate note, only girls can express sista love like this… Imagine if a guy wrote such a post for one of his friends???
me-
OG not jealous coz DHiren is free?
OG and Dhiren!!!
look at what rumours Rakesh is spreading
*Indyeah looks angelic*
IF a guy expressed it?
are you thinking of expressing it for a buddy? 
bilkul bilkul!!
*Indyeah bats eyelashes innocently *
me-
you are happy I assume
I am happy you have found such a good friend here
I still chat with people who used to blog etc
me- Thanks Vichu
and knowing you I have absolutely no doubts that you must have made some great friends 

I am happy too
lifelong friendships come along only once in a while na?
thanks again
life long friendships sail as long as you are on the boat
me-thats beautiful Vishesh and thought provoking too
Me the first?
me- LOL! Nah Kanagu! Mystery is first! but then you were first at OG’s blog yesterday na?
Ah… another sweet post… now where is Solilo.. we are missing her…
me- yes we are
Solilo you are the jaan of the group gurl
jaldi aao
awww….this is sooo sweet
*touchwood*
I have two such friends too…and now i have another extended family, in the blogosphere, who just let me be, without being judgmental.. How blessed are we!!!
me- Thanks Saima
yes we are indeed blessed

*touchwood* as you wrote
What a beautiful place the world is if one has such friends na?
absolutely
You are lucky to have a friend like her!!!
me- YEs, I am Sraboney

She is a darling friend to have …very open and very honest
thank you so much
P.S. and she’s lucky to have a friend like you!
me- heh!heh! modest moi wants to say yes
but seriously thanks a lot Sraboney
(((hugs)))
Bones is right. I am lucky to have you as my friend, Abhi.
me- awww (((((((((((((hugs))) muah
moi loves you
Oh no, what is happening in this world !!!!
me- Friendship
This is cruel, everyone dropped a comment thinking they were first! he he… nice trick Indy
me-
not a trick everyone seems to have caught Dhiren’s me first yayy wala bukhar!
Is she off the blogosphere ?
me-
yeah she has gone off for a trip for some days 
four or more
Sniff…
I miss her too – her posts especially…
Solilo seriously, come back soon….
And this post – reminded me of my friends – I miss them so much sometimes…
and, you guys are lucky to have each other…
*touchwood*
me- shes back!!yay!!earlier than expected!!


her posts are great na?
I love em too
aww dont miss your friends so much..meet them or call them
if thast not possible then mail them:)
or how about a good ol letter?hai na?
Thanks Pixie (((((hugs))))
Solio is very lucky
me- And so am I
Thanks Reema
That’s such a sweet post.
me- aww thanks Poonam

just wrote the post and she is back!
yippee!
Awww!!! such a sweet post and yes even I have been lucky

me- Thanks Smita
(((Hugs))
I knew you must be lucky….having known your irrepressible bubbly happy self how could you not have awesome friends?
LOL……..
what is this…..
can I call it “dostani”
LOL
(female version of dostana)
but yeah, she is a good blogger, her comments are ROFl-ing
me- ROFL@Dostani!!
OG whats with you and this constant jodi-making?
you turning into a match maker? *ahem*
Solilo rocks coz she is so cool
and yeah her comments are such hilarious fun!!
matchmaker… me.. no ways
me- lol!! OG if you dont want to be troubled then you have to convince DHirenbhai to stop making jodis
and you have to stop too
*okay solemn promise*
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no more troubling innocent OG (trying hard not to laugh
promise!
OG simply gets match-made with wrong people
me-
(hmmm, let us see who wins this battle)
me-arre!what happened?
Okay everyone! dont trouble OG
OG wont let anyone trouble you
happy now?
chalo smile now
when you say battle.. one has to simply go on
one more comment from me
Stop making jodis ???? He is not at fault !! A lot of mushy mushy posts dedicated to each other during ones absence. I seriously doubt something ! LOL !!! Theres no smoke without ‘FIRE’
me- and I have a very mature and sophisticated response for this
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Aww… I miss her too.
I keep checking comments on everyone’s blogs for her leg pulling (mainly aimed at Dhiren. Hehe.
) And i also keep going to her blog thinking she’s got a new post. 
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Solilo is one of the coolest bloggers I know (amongst others
**badz trying to save herself before Solilo don kills her (indyeah’s “quotation
BUT seriously, I really do miss her.
me- hai na? Thats what I said to OG too
the leg pulling, the ribbing, the way she comes up with her insanely hilarious comments 
that is what I missed the most
par now she is back!!
yyippee!:) dont feel sad
and yep!she is cool!!

DHirenbhai scratches his head to come up with some smart comebacks
they make a great pair (no funny ideas Dhirenbhai)
arre!! no!no! no quotation now

Indyeah takes back the supari
hum is friendship ki praise se khush huye
wow… lovely expression of friendship there…
friends forever..none to separate..you two are one soul in two bodies
carry on…
[[ everyone is touching wood, even I am ]]
me- Thanks Chiranjib


I do feel blessed at times
*touchwood* it is
thanks once again
This is a great love story indeed….you both might be sisters in this birth, but is some previous incarnation , may be more, one of you was a male…
me- aww thank you Sir
What? a male?
ROFL!!!
maybe but this will only give OG and Dhirenbhai more ideas about Dostana
Not four or more. Just 3 and 1/2
and am back all rejuvenated from a fabulous mini vacation.
me- Yippee!yippee!yippee!
Abhi, What to say here. I mean you already know what you mean to me. That’s the reason I rang you up to surprise you the day before leaving. Did you screech that Auntie thought you had gone bonkers? Oh! now that’s why the mood meter.
me- I know. and I know you know that I know
But I still needed to write this coz by the third day that is today, started missing you too much
so after sitting patiently somehow for two days I was like okay now have to write this..
yep! I kinda shrieked!


and mom did think I had lost it
This blogosphere has given me more than I deserved. Such great friendships and so much fun. While coming back I was telling my husband that now I have officially divorced Dhiren online and tucked him with Ajit. Ha…..ha…ha…
me- No..given exactly what you deserve
Happy people attract happy people An says and thats soo true for you
LOL!OG and Dhiren will be so ‘happy’ to hear that

with SOlilo
Dhirenbhai suna?
Official divorce!
no more jodi shodi
Abhi, It was howlarious that even on phone we spoke almost similar lines couple of times.
yep!that was so funny and weird and well just was..
me-
This post made my day. Thank you for being there always and being just the way you are, my precious friend. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Thank you for making me emotional.
*muaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah*
me- You make my days..and weeks
my whole blogging world and now beyond that too
So the words just had to be penned down here.
(((((((hugs)))))
for being who you are
muahh
LOL!!!!!! this truly is emotional athyachar
me- a dose or two of this is needed from time to time na?
dIVOrce et all ok… but why tuck me with Ajit.. !!
he is a buddy… but no dostana types… !! thank you very much… !!!
teri duniya se…. hoke majboor chala….. aa…aa…..
main bahut doooooooor.. bahut doooooooooooooooooooor… bahut doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooor chala…..
sigh.. !
So finally jaa rahe ho. Will we remain friends?
Am I really reading what Im reading ???? I wouldve left the blogosphere if some guy said the same about me
So very very very true… and you are lucky indeed, and is Solilo too!!
But you know what?? *giggling* I am the luckiest
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I got both of you in one swift happy stroke
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Really!!!! So there!!!
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me- yes you are but then so am I
coz I get you two too
very few know of the bond between us three
its unique *touchwood*
Gosh I feel like a little kid again, and more so whenever I read something like this from you.

me- if anyone is the eternal kid, one who sees everything with a joy thats obvious and a wonder thats beautiful to watch then the kid is you Ushus
Because the same sentiments you express, I know
Because the same resonances you feel , I do
Because being a friend, and having a friend is what being in heaven is all about…
Because of that darlingest darlingest bit of Calvin and Hobbes Solilo shared, which says, Things aren’t half as scary when you have a best friend
me- beautiful! Ushus

SOlilo’s C&H lines and yours too are so very true
((((((((hugs))))))))
Yes, sweets, you are lucky… and so is Solilo [I know I am repeating myself.. but WTH... I just want to underscore it
]; and the way you two vibe is absolutely tangible at times, and visible, always
God Bless you two, and all your loved ones as well…
Lovely lovely touching post!
me- The way you have made me a part of your world Ushus is something that fascinates me no end.. and makes me wonder too ..always but always …
the vibes are tangible.. true
as they are with you too
((((hugs))) darling friend for, you are the one who is the first one in this trio of madcap chatterboxes… women who laugh at and with life
awww…adorable a post indyeah!!
Cheers to your friendship!! God bless!! 

me- Thank you so much Sashu
cheers it is then
Its nice to have such friends. But don’t forget you have right to kick her if you want and vice versa
I wonder what your boyfriend must be putting up with
me- LOL!!
our friendship is pretty much like that
Why a kick Suda?
but yeah get what you want to say
Boyfriend?
*HAve never heard this word before*
*Indy looking angelic *
Indyeah,
Okay, I want to believe you. But I had my reasons to ask that question. Lately, since I moved to Pune, I haven’t seen a pretty girl without a BF (or brother may be) around.
So I thought………… anyway, we both know the answer was never expected

You don’t have a BF?
me- What?I am just an innocent kid
LOL@answer was never expected..then why did you ask?
Let me tell aunty
LOL!!!!!!
me-
Ahem…somethings are personal and all of us will see preview or review of this blog owner’s boy friend when time comes.
me- (hugs))Solilo for coming to the rescue
*Indy looks very bholu *
LOL!!!!!!
That was very sweet…
In this world it is only a few who find good friends or (soul friends as they say) and both of you have been lucky..
Here is a toast (clink) to your friendship.. let it deepen even more and be an inspiration to others.
me- aww thanks HK

loved the toast
thank you (((hugs))))
So So true Indyeah….I always say, that Friends are Gods blessing…they come with no strings attached, and with good friends the distance does not matter, the years gone by do not count, you always always pick up threads from where you left. …This morning I got this beautiful sms…
Do u know which is the best part of your life ? When your family understands you as afriend and your friends support you as family’‘…I lost one of my best friend and life has never been the same, i just cannot stop grieving…and at times like such I value friends, people, life even more….Nice post, and I am all smiles….Thank you.
me- with good friends the distance does not matter, the years gone by do not count, you always always pick up threads from where you left. .beautiful!!
.(((hugs)))Dost
Do u know which is the best part of your life ? When your family understands you as afriend and your friends support you as family’
and very true….
These lines are so beautiful Poonam
thank you for sharing them
oh!
I remember reading about your friend..I think you had written about him…
((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))glad I made you smile ..
god bless
oh you are a lucky one alright!! im sure solilio is super glad to have u too.
hugs to both of ya!!
me- thank you
(((hugs)))Right back darl
awwwww Indyeah! sniff!!!! this is so unbelievably cute!!! me misses solilo too! and i’ve told u this before…after reading solilo’s post and all the comments of missing u, i missed u even without having known you! (wasn’t aware of the KRS connect hee!)
this is great great friendship!!!! lovely!!!!!!!!! muahs & hugs to both of you!!!
as for the question…yes yes, me been lucky too! thanks to homey and mandy, the wonderful ppl that they are!!
really!!! me to love mandy very much!!!!
when mandy went on a break, i was reading up on all old posts! i missed her so much! its some connect that i can’t seem to explain! she was the first reunited sis i found!
and homey is my darling-est ever! i did this post for her when i started off blogging. knew her much before that tho!
and now i have found u Indi!
what fun!!! hugs!!!!!!
i turned ur comment page into my dedication page! lol!
ps: i am soooooooo late
nahiiiiiiiiii!!!!
me- awww Crafty you are so sweet

and a darling
((((hugs)))))yep!you told me and that was so cute:)
muahs and hugs right back darl
yours Homey’s and Mandy’s friendship is almost folklore now

*touchwood*
you knew Homey from before too?:) thats cute:)
(((hugs)))))))
for such a cute comment, late bhi chalega
muah:)
(((hugs))))
now I am off to read the tribute
Abhi, That was such a sweet, sweet post! And both of you are lucky to have found each other! Yes, friends make so much of a difference don’t they? There are friends who you might even be out of touch with – but the moment you start speaking -its almost like picking up where we left off… Some friends are forever! Touchwood – for the 2 of you
me- aww thank you Smitha
)
(((((hugs)))))
those are the real kind of friends na?the ones who are so close that one can pick up from where one left off?
beautifully put Smitha
thank you
I am glad to have found you too
you too are a cherished friend here
(((hugs))))
A very good post for friendship, Indeah. Normally, girls become close friends like this during school days. You both are lucky to have such sincere, close friendship after school/college days. Good luck to you. Let this friendship carryon throughout your life, Indeah and Solilo!
I too missed her and her posts and comments too!
me- Thank you so much Sandhya

you are so right
its only in school and college that one finds such friendships
*touchwood* that we have found it here
(((hugs)))))))))thank you so much
Sandhya, you are always so nice.
me- Sandhya is a sweetheart
Thank you, Indyeah and Solilo! I see you people still have some innocence in you, which is rare, nowadays. Be like this always!
me- Thank you so much for the wishes
(((((hugs))))
Hats off to friends and friendship…lovely post!!
me- Welcome here and thank you so much Sara
Awwwwwwwwwww is all I can muster for the moment. But I am blessed too.Thank You God.
me- Thank you so much Chrysalis
happy to see that you are blessed with siuch friends as well:)
God bless your friendships too
After reading your post , I think guys are too casual about their friendship…. One of my best friends, who doesn’t even have a blog, who doesn’t intend to have one, who think i am wasting a lot of time blogging….. has not even read my blog once (like for the last six months) even after my constant reminders and threats!. So much for being best friends for so many years!! Kuch log aaap jaisa lucky nahi rahe….
Destination Infinity
me- aww…thats sad
.I think guys are probably not as demonstrative as a whole..hai na?
your friend has still not read your blog?
yes, I can understand because some of my friends also have not read mine
they refuse to:)
keep persisting with the threats ..and I am sure they will work one day
I think sometimes we expect too much from our friends..same is the case with my best friend too
so we both are in the same situation
all the best DI!
Sniff, sniff!
This one really touched the heart! SO beautifully worded. It was obvious that each word blossomed in your soul before dancing on your fingertips to finally come alive on the screen and touch us all.
Lucky girl, to have a friend like that.
Lucky you, to have someone who makes you feel this way.
me- aww that is so beautifully written MM
(hugs))))for your words:) thank you so much
The photograph of the cat/kittens is beauuuuuuuuuuutiful, Indyeah! They seem to be in dreamland!
me- awww they do dont they?
Kittens are so cute to look at
(((hugs)))
I know what it feels like. That’s why I married my best friend
me- awww that is the sweetest thing I have read today:)
((((((((((((hugs)))
*touchwood* D
Grrrrrr….I am J-E-A-L-O-U-S !!! And am very touched too. What a lovely gift from one friend to another. Sniffles!
Anyway, I have to find solace in the hope of meeting up with my dearest friend from college this weekend. That’s the only thing that makes me want to go to ’40-degrees Chennai’ right now!! Sigh.. signing out to do some more packing now! Ta!!
me- aww.that is so sweet Pal
.it is a day and perhaps a season for awwss
(((hugs)))
yippee!you are going to meet a friend?
thats so sweet
packing all done by now?
have a great time
god bless
I am 65th person here…by the time this is published maybe 69th or more!
Aww this is really sweet…. I remember another one where you wished Solilo’s other half and Peanut on their birthdays! Yes, internet friendships do become very precious, and very close!! Isn’t it all about communication? And what else do we do when we blog, comment, chat and email? Warmest wishes and hugs to you both
me-aww IHM That is so sweet of you:)
yes it is all about communication
(((hugs)))
and some bonds that seem so tangible na?
{{{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}}}]
Thanks for being YOU.
For being a woman of conviction
For writing what you believe in
For giving tit-for-tat to the losers
For respecting opposite views
For being YOU
Because only you can be YOU.
Cheers to our friendship!
for being a darling friend 

me- (((((((((((((((hugs))))))))) right back for being such a great support
for all your words just when I need them
muah !!!!
Well, you are lucky. Its great to have such friends!! Life feels so complete!
Best of luck and may this friendship go on forever!
me- Thanks Amit

)on your blog speak volumes about a deep friendship
and may I say the same to you
the pics (before and after ones of your friends
We all give our love and affection to many people in our life.
But its only the lucky few who receive back that love a thousand times over.’………this is the eternal truth..may be our karmas:)
Even I am very lucky, got so many people who love me too much:)
and I agree happy people attract happy people:)


me- Thats beautiful Renu
((hugs)))and touchwood
if we have even one person in our life who loves us we are blessed
Thanks for making me pause for a moment and acknowledge my friends!
http://pujathakur.wordpress.com/2009/05/29/and-i-take-this-moment-to-thank-my-own-sweet-little-group-of-friends/
me- welcome here Puja
It was really nice to read your tribute
We all give our love and affection to many people in our life.
But its only the lucky few who receive back that love a thousand times over.
Nicely said !! And m glad i can think atleast a few people to count !! thanks for making me count my blessings !!
me-

you are most welcome Pretty
glad that it led to the new post
welcome here
thanks for welcoming !! m here to stay now
*heading straight to write a post about my friends*
me- aww ..that is sweet
U r sweet Indyeah
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And yes, there is no better tonic than good friends
me- Thanks Nancy


I agree too
(((hugs)))
been late in reading your posts
I have been so curious to read the motherhood tag one and the one after
I am coming right now!!
A wise man once said “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”
me- thats so true!
Thanks Prerna
How sweet
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr..So,when are you going to do a post about me
((hugs))
May your friendship stay fresh for ever and ever..
me- Thanks Nimmy

and thank you for the wishes too
((hugs))))
Interesting..
A very different About me page..
me- welcome here Dev
thanks
Very, very, really truly sweet post. So-o-o glad for you and Piglet.
me- thanks SUcharita

though I thought of myself as Piglet
par ab hum SOlilo ko bana dete hain
*run Indyeah run!!*
Abhi – Have updated the post – am officially tagging you
Sorry – the only reason I did not was coz you had been tagged already! Apologies!! Am I forgiven ??? Please, please, pretty please with cheese?
me- *Indyeah pretends to think about it*
aree just kidding!
((((((((hugs))))))tag taken!
:D
forgiven! says Indyeah with a mighty flourish
very sweet. friends are special gifts send by God. No wonder the road to a friend’s house is never too long.
me- Thanks Nitu
that is such a beautiful line
Holy crap, Im out of comments now after commenting here and there in the same post !!!
I just three words for both of you — All the best !!!
me- thank you hai Ji

welcome back!!
LOL, I dont think you really understand when I meant ” all the best ”
me- edited to add :- what??you are still alive?
Solilo has not murdered you yet?
I am in ‘ignore’ mode right now
tsk!tsk!
hey ram!!
People are filling Indyeah’s mind with nonsense
which meaning?
I LOVE this post, Indyeah!
Hope you are doing well!
*hugs*
me- thanks Ana
((hugs))right back
Awwwwwwww…this is so sweet, Indy
Kaala teeka post this