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Of bad boys and falling for them

December 10, 2008

aargh!!!!have AB-SO-LU-TE-LY had it with women -in-love and their sugary-slurpy-saccharine stories coupled with getting their self-respect-kicked-out -the -door and goin crawlin back to the same loser ….??I mean do ya see me askin to hear the sob story and the romantic reunion(such as it is)do you??and know who did it?my best pal !thats who!so here I am ranting coz cant do it with her around..well actually can and did…(points to me for frankness )..but well not so expansively…anyway there she sat telling me bout this guy whom I have only heard of till nw mind u….(almost a mythical creature d dude seems)and she tells me hw happy she is nw that he’s finally DECIDED that she is indeed the one he wants in his life(his miserable lil life…the worm,the dog..you better watch out boyo!you hurt her at all….I’ll tear you limb to limb..)and would she please dress up in such n such and meet his parents?gimme a break!

why the rant you ask?well ,bear with me my hasty friends…we’ll come to that eventually….n see if you dont join me then…lil background here first………

what is it with women and guys who turn us away …the not for keeps….the bad boys(MB speak comin up nw)…..I mean imagine this little scene……here we are at the lil kiddie party our moms have thrown for us……6-7 year old somethings all busy staring at each other..too damn shy to ask someone to dance and too shy to dance anyway:))……….more interested in d cake….and that universal sign of letting a girl know u liked her(pull her pigtails till she screams …thats what!:))….hope thats what the sign was…or the torture one bore was in vain(sob!)anyway cut to scene II …high school …same bunch hangin out ….girls in one corner…guys in the other….whom do we head straight for?the most happening stud?(ok…ok…maybe in some cases….:P)but generally we headed for the one sole guy hanging in the corner looking so damn lost……floppy hair falling all over his face,melting brown eyes,mama’s boy lookin so damn out of place,holding a coke ,baggy trousers,weird coloured shirt(puky green..blech!)…the specs falling off his nose were an added touch..and we melted right on the spot(hey ask any gal in your life)….so there one stood making him feel all comfy and stuff……..feeling almost motherly(its the WOMAN in us we said:D)

cut to the present…what the hell happened?when did we start going after the wrong un?do we love(in a weird twisted way) being made to feel like we are nothing without him?like he is the only one for us?and we couldnt possibly survive without him?I mean how many of you have been the guy whose shoulder she cries on about the jerk shes been seeing?(first hand info from all the ones I have as friends)so got a little male perspective from them…see the damn maternal instinct if thats what you want to call it…pffff…kicks in here too but for the wrong guy!!http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/living/2004133311_badboysquiz22.html…check out the quiz………

I mean this is not a bloody romance novel where you get to reform the rake…no-O he cannot be reformed…if he could be…you dont really think his ma would have done it?(as mothers are)…so give up the fantasies girlie…forget the caveman…trust me you wont like getting dragged off into the cave…hair or no hair…

PS:more on the best pal later…and the guy …lets see how it goes….

uh huh and dont take the quiz too seriously…but do take a peek….

and before signing off ..something from wonder years…

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You’ll have your heart broken and you’ll break others’ hearts. You’ll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you’ll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you’ve never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone’s hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don’t be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.

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One Comment leave one →
  1. November 26, 2009 11:15 pm

    Nice post….

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