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Doston ki zubaani ๐Ÿ˜€

โ€˜โ€™You can really irritate you knowโ€™โ€™.

โ€˜โ€™Whats with you and talking? Donโ€™t you ever shut up?โ€™โ€™

โ€˜โ€™You listen, really listen you know”

”How can you just sit there?โ€ฆ can you manage to be so calm?โ€™โ€™

”errmmm whats with you and the hyperness today?”

โ€˜โ€™You could never do that, you are too sweet to.โ€™โ€™

โ€˜โ€™Girl you can really kick ass canโ€™t you?” Evil grins from friends ๐Ÿ˜€

Are you really intelligent or do you just pull these words out of the air?โ€™โ€™

โ€˜โ€™Hmmm so you are good at ย these languagesโ€ฆwhich place are you from again?โ€™โ€™

โ€˜โ€™So which place do you belong to?โ€™โ€™ No donโ€™t laugh..really I am serious which place?…..What do you mean I am an Indian? I am an Indian too dammitโ€ฆI still have a native placeโ€™โ€™

โ€˜โ€™Donโ€™t pretend to be goody two shoes coz you arenโ€™tโ€™โ€™ Ex-friend ๐Ÿ˜€

โ€˜โ€™One day I am telling youโ€ฆyou wonโ€™t be able to handle itโ€ฆso many people โ€ฆso many friendshipsโ€ฆ.woman wake up! Prioritise!โ€™โ€™

<em>โ€˜โ€™When life gives you lemons throw em back and say you want chocolatesโ€™โ€™ Indyeahism ๐Ÿ˜€

I can never just live life. Never have , never will…I have to breathe it, live it, taste it….the tanginess, the salty tears, the joys that are bittersweet, the emotions that promise a rollercoaster ride…
Life is made up of all these and more…

There’s never a dull moment …life is only dull if we make it so and I, for one, refuse to ๐Ÿ˜€

And oh yeah the friends up there are right you know…I can and do kick asss when required….nothing pisses me off so much as sanctimonious individuals…

If you are wrong, accept it…
If you are right, then refuse to back down….
If your gut instincts said something else and you went against them coz everyone else said so then you deserve to be castigated…

Most of all when we pretend to be something we are not, it shows…believe me it shows….

So one can pretend to be a dozen different things all at once…but once in a while just when you least expect it, something will show….like a little peek into who you really are…have always been….will always be…

So just be honest..thats the only word that works.

I usually go for the soft approach, you know the diplomatic one..but then the sledgehammer ‘me’ takes over pretty quick when I lose patience ๐Ÿ˜€

hoo boy!Its hard to write about one isnt it?

nah not really! ๐Ÿ˜€

watch this space for more ๐Ÿ˜€


155 Comments leave one →
  1. April 1, 2009 10:24 am

    I can’t read it. The fonts are all White. ๐Ÿ˜›

    • Indyeahforever permalink*
      April 1, 2009 7:54 pm

      Solilo ๐Ÿ˜€ Thats coz I had not written anything ๐Ÿ˜€
      Now I have written some lines ๐Ÿ˜€

      • Solilo permalink
        April 2, 2009 4:58 am

        Abe Abhi ki bachchi! I was kidding. ๐Ÿ˜€

        BTW I always thought “When life gives you lemons stick them up your shirt to make your boobs look bigger”.

        Bhaagooooo. ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€

        • Indyeah permalink*
          April 2, 2009 7:26 am

          LOL! ๐Ÿ˜€
          *ahem * Soliloism ๐Ÿ˜€
          *running after Solilo *

          • hitchwriter permalink
            April 3, 2009 1:32 am

            too much are you two !

          • Indyeah permalink*
            April 3, 2009 4:56 am

            LOL! ๐Ÿ˜€

          • Solilo permalink
            April 3, 2009 5:28 am

            Ha..ha..ha.. ๐Ÿ˜€

          • April 3, 2009 7:57 pm

            lemons? bigger??

          • hitchwriter permalink
            April 3, 2009 10:49 pm

            spare it —- Rakesh !! ๐Ÿ˜€

          • Indyeah permalink*
            April 4, 2009 2:10 am


          • July 14, 2009 7:43 pm

            lol at Dhirenbhai n rakesh ๐Ÿ˜€
            me- ๐Ÿ˜†

        • Badz permalink
          May 8, 2009 3:09 am

          ROFL!! ๐Ÿ˜†

  2. April 1, 2009 11:13 am

    your “About me” is blank….. ๐Ÿ™‚ let us all have a mini taste of Indyeahism here…. ๐Ÿ™‚ is my humble suggestion…. ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜€ LOL hehehehehehehe

    • Indyeahforever permalink*
      April 1, 2009 7:58 pm

      lOL! yeah will start filling up these pages now ๐Ÿ˜€
      humble suggestion lol! ๐Ÿ˜€
      okay one Indyeahism is up there ๐Ÿ˜€

      • April 2, 2009 4:54 am

        โ€™When life gives you lemons throw em back and say you want chocolatesโ€™โ€™
        wah wah… what a line… “kidilam” (fantastic) as we say in malayalam… ๐Ÿ™‚
        (see, I am teaching you malayalam now)….. ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ˜›

        One thing I would like to say here regarding this line:
        “Most of all when we pretend to be something we are not, it showsโ€ฆbelieve me it shows”
        I dont exactly agree, coz at times, I feel that the OG in Real life is different from the OG is blog life…. ๐Ÿ˜›

        I have one more “humble” suggestion: ๐Ÿ˜›
        When ever you think or write some brilliant Indyeahisms… you can populate it up here….. in this Tab so that all the bloggers in the world can share your wisdom….. ๐Ÿ™‚

        • Indyeah permalink*
          April 2, 2009 7:35 am

          Ajit ๐Ÿ˜€
          aww.. thank you ๐Ÿ˜€
          *scribbling Kidilam in my notebook* okay done! I am going to learn malayalam ๐Ÿ˜€

          You are not like that in real life? ๐Ÿ˜€
          and here I was thinking that Uncle and aunty named you OG so cutely


          LOL@sharing Indyeahisms ..:D yeah ofcourse ..the world needs my pearls of wisdom ๐Ÿ˜€

          Thanks for the smiles dude ๐Ÿ˜€

  3. Chirag Chamoli permalink
    April 1, 2009 8:32 pm

    I usually go for the soft approach, you know the diplomatic one..but then the sledgehammer โ€˜meโ€™ takes over pretty quick when I lose patience ๐Ÿ˜€

    ๐Ÿ™‚ Brilliant.

    • Indyeahforever permalink*
      April 1, 2009 8:48 pm

      (((Hugs)))for that comment ๐Ÿ˜€
      I soo needed to hear this ๐Ÿ™‚
      thanks a ton dude! in so many ways ๐Ÿ™‚

  4. Solilo permalink
    April 2, 2009 5:06 am

    Abhi, The best thing I like about you is your unprejudiced approach towards everything. You aren’t all words but you really put your principles in your action.

    Even if I have only one friend in the world, I would be proud that the one is not a charlatan and the one doesn’t try to please others by hiding behind a mask.

    Be truthful to yourself and the world will see that some day. The mask of fakeness wears off sooner. So my friend please be your truthful self always.

    —End of Solilo-ism—

    • Indyeah permalink*
      April 2, 2009 7:38 am

      ((((Hugs)) muah!!
      And I love you more than ever ๐Ÿ™‚

      For being rock solid in everything you do and as Usha says for the courage of conviction ๐Ÿ™‚
      But most of all for being my support ๐Ÿ™‚

      Loved this Solilo-ism ๐Ÿ™‚

      *chanting* we want more Solilo-isms ๐Ÿ˜€

      I dont need to say more..we always jabber away so much ๐Ÿ˜€


      • April 2, 2009 8:36 am

        OMG!!!!!!! now we have solilo-ism as well……… that is going to be hard to handle….. ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ˜€
        LOL hehehehehehehehehehehehehe

        • Indyeah permalink*
          April 2, 2009 8:48 am

          hmm lets see ๐Ÿ˜€ OGitis OGish ๐Ÿ˜€ and Indyeahisms and Soliloisms ๐Ÿ˜€
          yeah we are all set I say! ๐Ÿ˜€ to give some gyaan to the masses ๐Ÿ˜€

    • April 2, 2009 11:56 am

      Solilo is hiding behind her “Very Mafia like” name to frighten other people…. ๐Ÿ˜€

      • Solilo permalink
        April 2, 2009 7:47 pm

        Ha..ha..ha.. seriously! I hate my screen name.

        • Indyeah permalink*
          April 2, 2009 7:50 pm

          hey! I love it ๐Ÿ˜›

      • Indyeah permalink*
        April 2, 2009 7:47 pm

        ๐Ÿ˜€ Run OG!!
        Solilo is coming ๐Ÿ˜€

        • Ordinary Guy permalink
          April 2, 2009 7:56 pm

          ๐Ÿ™‚ LOL….. ๐Ÿ™‚ I like your name as well…. Solilo, but I wanna know as to what inspired you to choose such an offbeat, meaningless name…. ๐Ÿ™‚ LOL
          well, as i see it, there must be some story behind this….. ๐Ÿ˜›

          • Solilo permalink
            April 3, 2009 5:32 am

            Meaning less??????? Ordinary Guy!!!

            Oh lord! forgive him for he doesn’t know what he sayeth about this Solilo-th. ๐Ÿ˜€

            Solilo is short form of SOLILOquies or me SOLILOquy. My blog title is Soliloquies of an Opinionated mind.

            Abhi has explained what Soliloquies mean.

            Now let me send some of my goons to beat you up for making fun of my screen name. I have seen your Sundarakuttappan picture so you can’t hide from my goons. Just remember that! ๐Ÿ˜†

          • Indyeah permalink*
            April 3, 2009 5:35 am

            ROFL ! ๐Ÿ˜€ *OG running like Jerry!* ๐Ÿ˜€

          • hitchwriter permalink
            April 3, 2009 6:10 am

            Thank god before I made fun of that screen name.. I read the word goons…

            now i understood the meaning of the name totally !!

            *keeping mum* ๐Ÿ™‚

          • April 3, 2009 11:11 am

            Ayyo!!!!!!!!!!!!! ๐Ÿ™‚ Indyeah save me!!!!
            Solilo, acting ayrinnu….. ๐Ÿ™‚ please believe me!!!! LOL….
            Just for horror…. ๐Ÿ™‚

            Solilo, knows my name, my email ID, seen my photo….. now only Indra, the lord of Heaven can protect me!!!!!!
            let me start meditation!!!!!

          • Indyeah permalink*
            April 4, 2009 2:07 am

            LOL ๐Ÿ˜€

          • Indyeah permalink*
            April 2, 2009 8:20 pm

            Her name is Soliloquy Which means : the act of talking to oneself
            : a dramatic monologue that represents a series of unspoken reflections

            Then it changed to Solilo ๐Ÿ˜€
            So we call her that ๐Ÿ˜€

            Its got a beautiful meaning ๐Ÿ˜€

            Now its Solilo ๐Ÿ˜€ There she comes! Run OG Run!!You made fun of her name! ๐Ÿ˜€

          • hitchwriter permalink
            April 3, 2009 1:33 am

            now now… will any one tell me what does hitch writer mean ??

            coz i have no clue… !

            n dont ask me why i chose it…

            I remember reading in Mandrake books that a hitch hiker would be walking… so I took the hitch from there… !!!! ๐Ÿ˜€

          • Indyeah permalink*
            April 3, 2009 4:58 am

            You know I did search for the meaning when I first came to your blog ๐Ÿ˜€
            but then realised that you were the only Hitchwriter on the web ๐Ÿ˜€
            so be happy!!!
            yours is the only name that comes up in google search ๐Ÿ˜€

            It doesnt mean anything..however you can always say that you were ‘inspired’ by Douglas Adams ๐Ÿ˜‰

          • hitchwriter permalink
            April 3, 2009 6:01 am

            now who is Douglas Adams ?? and what does he mean >>??

          • Indyeah permalink*
            April 3, 2009 6:14 am


            Here it is ๐Ÿ˜€

          • Indyeah permalink*
            April 3, 2009 6:16 am

            Dhiren i think there is some problem with this link…search for Douglas Adams and the book Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy

          • Siva permalink
            July 29, 2009 3:21 pm

            LOL you guys are real nuts, just kidding really enjoy reading. Hitch has a simple meaning of ‘To hook’. So Hitch writer means you are writing to hook something or someone ๐Ÿ™‚
            me- welcome here Siva:)
            yeah the whole gang here is nuts ๐Ÿ˜€
            thanks for explaining the meaning:)

          • Badz permalink
            April 28, 2009 6:45 am

            Sorry! I know this is a little late BUT hitchwriter means hook/fasten/join/tie writer. It can also mean snag/hold-up/drawback/delay/problem/trouble writer

            .me-thanks Badz.. I had no idea ๐Ÿ˜€

  5. April 2, 2009 7:35 am

    Very very Indyeahish . ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Indyeah permalink*
      April 2, 2009 8:00 am

      Thanks Kislay ๐Ÿ˜€
      you came up with the word Indyeahish didnt you? ๐Ÿ˜€
      so thank you for that word ๐Ÿ˜€

      And thank you ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. hitchwriter permalink
    April 3, 2009 1:37 am

    And bout ‘Di !!

    Well well… she is the warmest… the most dil se… the most passionate bout things she is interested in… the most resourceful when she puts her mind to it… Irrepressible (hope the spelling is rite) … the gushing.. bubbly she is… the most wonderfully enthusiastic blogger… and a very good one at that… !!!

    This space is looking even more better than blogspot ‘di without a trace of doubt !!!

    • Indyeah permalink*
      April 3, 2009 5:04 am

      How sweet is that? ๐Ÿ™‚
      Dude I am overwhelmed …totally ๐Ÿ™‚
      Thank you so so much …I am glad I know you here ๐Ÿ™‚
      I first came to your blog through Usha’s ๐Ÿ™‚
      (((hugs))Dhiren for those awesome lines ๐Ÿ™‚

      Yeah I like WP too ๐Ÿ˜€
      yayy!!! ๐Ÿ˜€

      do think of a new word for the WP samaaj ๐Ÿ˜€

      • hitchwriter permalink
        April 3, 2009 6:04 am

        Word Press Club ??


        Word Press Gang ??

        by the way blog samaj still remains !! as it is above all blog servers !!

        he he he….

        Ushus is an angel !!

  7. April 3, 2009 9:13 pm

    I usually go for the soft approach, you know the diplomatic one..but then the sledgehammer โ€˜meโ€™ takes over pretty quick when I lose patience …
    Loved your description of yourself…and I am like that, take a safe approach and loose patience in between and blow the top!But I am a stickler for peaceful ways most of the time…
    Glad to be hear…

    • Indyeah permalink*
      April 4, 2009 2:11 am

      Thanks Sindhu ๐Ÿ™‚
      I am glad to see you here too:)
      LOL@description ๐Ÿ˜€ yayy!! twins ๐Ÿ˜€

      yeah its hard to talk to some people ๐Ÿ˜€

  8. April 4, 2009 4:05 am

    “Most of all when we pretend to be something we are not, it showsโ€ฆbelieve me it showsโ€ฆ.”

    Indyeah…Believe me.., Not only are you adorable, but very wise too..:) Keep up the good work..((hugs))..

    • Indyeah permalink*
      April 4, 2009 6:06 am

      You always come and give me your words when I need them the most

      I remember each word that you have shared earlier too…and each time they leave me with a warm feeling ๐Ÿ™‚
      thank you (((hugs))for being such a great friend:)
      My request stands as before ๐Ÿ˜€
      Please reconsider ๐Ÿ™‚

  9. Winnie the poohi permalink
    April 5, 2009 11:14 am

    Hey I came out here to remind you that you have not posted anything for long.. I even reminded OG.. its seems like you guys are having pure wordpress fun.. umm am gonna come soon too.. I dont wanna miss the fun ๐Ÿ˜€

    • Indyeah permalink*
      April 5, 2009 3:47 pm

      aww..WInnie how sweet is that? ๐Ÿ™‚
      ((hugs))) something soon ๐Ÿ˜€
      been busy with work and yeah WP is a maze too ๐Ÿ˜€
      YEah I am going to be waiting for you ๐Ÿ˜€
      The complete Blogspot gang should be here soon ๐Ÿ˜€
      THEN we’ll have fun ๐Ÿ˜‰
      *imagine the comment threads going wild with inane comments* ๐Ÿ˜€

      • Winnie the poohi permalink
        April 8, 2009 12:36 pm

        It already is babes!! Its already is!

  10. Winnie the poohi permalink
    April 5, 2009 11:15 am

    Ah btw! Loved the who Indyeahism.. even teh conversations ๐Ÿ˜€

    • Indyeah permalink*
      April 5, 2009 3:44 pm

      Thanks WInnie ๐Ÿ˜€
      LOL@conversations ๐Ÿ˜€
      I tell you all of us have lost it ๐Ÿ˜€
      we are going mad with WP power D:

  11. April 6, 2009 1:01 am

    Is it now? Hard to write about oneself? Thought so, till I read this.. ๐Ÿ˜› !!!

    But then, and I love saying this to you, I knew all this? NOthing new here, LOL!

    The passsion for life, for anything and everything, as in the little quote below the header, that says it all ๐Ÿ™‚

    And as Solilo has said, the unprejudiced views, and the sincerity that rings out from your expressions, are touchstones of your being ๐Ÿ™‚

    @Dhirubhai [bhai is in place here, hehehe!] thank you for the blessings ๐Ÿ™‚ Need them ๐Ÿ™‚

    And Indy gurl, my desi gurl…

    Go on and sing that song from Dostana for yourself ๐Ÿ™‚

    You Rock!!!

    • Indyeah permalink*
      April 6, 2009 4:35 am

      (((hugs)) I knew that you would know ๐Ÿ˜€
      Yeah Dhiren said it all ๐Ÿ™‚
      Thank you
      *dancing to desi gurl* ๐Ÿ˜‰

  12. April 6, 2009 3:08 am

    thank you ,thank you,thank you ๐Ÿ™‚ For using so many smileys ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€

    lol ,a pretty interesting about me ;;) ::) ๐Ÿ˜€

    • Indyeah permalink*
      April 6, 2009 4:31 am

      LOL! ๐Ÿ˜€
      thank you O’ Smiley king ๐Ÿ˜€

      and thank you for the appreciation too ๐Ÿ˜‰

  13. Solilo permalink
    April 7, 2009 5:54 am

    Thumka lage

    Oh! Lak Lak

    Indy gurl ๐Ÿ˜†

    @Rakesh: Lots of Lemons ๐Ÿ˜†

    • Indyeah permalink*
      April 7, 2009 9:53 am

      hey bhagwaan ๐Ÿ˜€
      IS my blog haunted by dusht aatmas? ๐Ÿ˜€ They seem to be making everyone go bonkers ๐Ÿ˜†

      • April 7, 2009 5:46 pm

        yes it is haunted !!! wooooooooooo ๐Ÿ˜€

        ME:-yeah and I can see one dusht aatma right here ๐Ÿ˜€

        • Winnie the poohi permalink
          April 8, 2009 12:37 pm

          Dushta aatma ? Well you are one.. what else can you expect? ๐Ÿ˜€

          me-what?? ๐Ÿ˜€ *Winnie running off* pakdo!! ๐Ÿ˜€

  14. April 19, 2009 3:39 am

    Let me stop laughing at all the bhago and all the pakdo above …
    this is one lively gang here :))

    me- ๐Ÿ˜†
    crazy group na IHM? ๐Ÿ˜€
    (((hugs)) you are the sanest member of the gang ๐Ÿ˜€

    • Winnie the poohi permalink
      April 28, 2009 10:05 am

      I am hiding right behind you! you can distract indyeah ๐Ÿ˜‰

    • May 1, 2009 5:55 pm

      sanest member or seniorest ???? bhagoooooooooooooo….
      me- ๐Ÿ˜†
      pakdo dusht aatma ๐Ÿ˜€

      • Solilo permalink
        May 1, 2009 7:57 pm

        Oye! I have copyright on bhagoooooo. ๐Ÿ˜€

        me- ๐Ÿ˜€

        • May 1, 2009 8:30 pm

          I have a copyright on copying !!!! u dushtaatma..

          me-copyright on copying? ๐Ÿ˜†
          only Dhiren could say something liek that ๐Ÿ˜€

    • May 2, 2009 4:25 am

      Agree IHM – Sanest member of the Gang ๐Ÿ˜€

  15. May 4, 2009 2:29 pm

    lol@โ€™When life gives you lemons throw em back and say you want chocolatesโ€™โ€™ Indyeahism.
    u beat calvin hollow!he only asks us to throw back lemons n add some more of our own. you, on the other hand, ask for chocolates! lol

    me- ๐Ÿ˜†
    chocolates are a better deal anyday than lemons na? ๐Ÿ˜€

  16. May 7, 2009 2:35 am

    where is the next indyeahism…….????????

    me-coming soon to a multiplex near you ๐Ÿ˜€

  17. Badz permalink
    May 8, 2009 3:18 am

    Indyeah. Now that I’ve known you for a few weeks, I can imagine all those quotes (plus more) being used on you. You’re crazy (aka pagal) BUT have a good heart. And even I know you can kick ass when you need to. I feel sorry for the person on the receiving end. ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜‰

    me-awwww….thank you ๐Ÿ˜€
    (((hugs)) muah ๐Ÿ˜€
    Indyeah happily places the crown on Badz’s head now ๐Ÿ˜€

  18. Quirky Indian permalink
    May 13, 2009 3:56 pm

    For some strange reason, I didn’t visit the About Me page earlier. Just happened to click on it today. And guess what – I am glad I did. I finally have proof that Indyeah can write posts that are not too long! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Keep writing.


    Quirky Indian

    me- ๐Ÿ˜€ QI ..pstt speak in a whisper please..we dont err want my die while you read long post reputation (courtesy Amit I might add*glares at Amit *) going down the drain do we? ๐Ÿ˜€
    on a diff note welcome back ๐Ÿ™‚ no new posts from you since looking forward to reading the new one ๐Ÿ˜€

  19. May 13, 2009 7:39 pm

    “So just be honest..thats the only word that works.”

    Couldn’t agree more!!
    me- ๐Ÿ™‚

  20. June 12, 2009 2:30 pm


    Came across your blog – very nice =)

    Can’t wait for more posts!


    me- thanks a lot Robyn ๐Ÿ™‚
    welcome here ๐Ÿ™‚

  21. June 26, 2009 11:31 am

    I love your blog. This is a really fun and interesting blog. Thank you for the great stories and the great entertainment. From all the posts that I have read you seem like a very smart, interesting and wonderful person.
    me- welcome here Eric ๐Ÿ™‚
    and thank you so much for the wonderful words ๐Ÿ™‚

  22. arunraaj permalink
    July 4, 2009 3:12 am

    o ma gawd..thers some activity around her..
    btw,cool blog..
    keep blogging

    with love
    me-thanks and welcome here ๐Ÿ™‚

  23. July 4, 2009 10:57 am

    Just checking in. Your blog is still amazing, of course.
    me- thanks ๐Ÿ™‚

  24. ves21 permalink
    July 6, 2009 3:39 am

    bahut sal khue ek ladki thi- south india me. unke ma pita ne kaha : tumh

  25. ves21 permalink
    July 6, 2009 3:45 am

    Bahut sal khue, south india me, ek 14 sal ki ladki thi. Unke ma aur pita ,ne kaha tumhari shadi hogi aur tumhe dekhne ainge. …Koon? ..
    Aie the;… uski date dekhi.
    Zade pasand nahi aiyah. Naraz hogai.
    Mose ne kaha: pasand nahi he to zhao; padho.
    Tchali gai.
    Bakhut padha. Aur …? Shaid Dilli gai ?
    Dusre bar likuhngi(ga)???
    me- and I got lost in the maze of words that you wove ๐Ÿ˜€

    explain again please ๐Ÿ˜› and come back to fulltime blogging!

    • July 14, 2009 7:56 pm

      i loved it too.. and hope there is more when i scroll down ๐Ÿ™‚
      me- Ves is a really special person Tara ..and one day I will share why:)
      none has given me as much food for thought as Ves did and does:)

  26. July 9, 2009 8:50 pm

    Whoops ! The number of comments and the chit-chat around them is impressive !
    me-welcome here Nupur:)
    LOL! yeah its a mad gang here ๐Ÿ™‚

    Okay one thing I would like to mention- I could relate to you as a person through this post.. I too believe in accepting on face when I go wrong or not backing off when I’m right !

    me- you are?:) thats nice:)

    You write well ๐Ÿ™‚ Will dig up to get some more good stuff underneath ๐Ÿ˜‰
    me- thanks a lot:)

  27. July 11, 2009 11:05 am

    You are very good writer .Just arrived at ur blog for the first time.
    Read that dilli wala post. Bahut accha likha hai…
    Hope I can learn some things from this blog and the writer of this blog.

    Well done, Best of luck !
    me- welcome here Amol ๐Ÿ™‚ and thanks a lot:)
    keep dropping by:)


  28. July 12, 2009 10:03 pm

    Muah..Gillu. ๐Ÿ™‚
    me-muahhh!!! ๐Ÿ˜€

    • July 13, 2009 2:18 am

      what is this “gillu”……… cannot understand………………..

      me- OG its a story of a squirrrel called Gillu by the famous writer Mahadevi VErma
      SOlilo calls me Gillu ๐Ÿ™‚
      HEre’s the story

      • July 14, 2009 9:31 am

        hmmmm, do you what “Gilli” means in tamil………. it means “talented one” or “winner”….. ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜›


        me- ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› its not ROFL!!!
        its TRUE ๐Ÿ™‚
        *Indy preens* ๐Ÿ˜›

        that means, I am never going to call you “gilli”…. :mrgreen: ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜›
        me- ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› Solilo calls me GILLU NOT GILLI ๐Ÿ˜›

        But now I will have an added reason to enjoy the word now that I know the meaning ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜›

        • July 14, 2009 11:41 am

          a lot of people call you “gilli”…………
          now why is that hard to believe ??????
          ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜›

          me- aaarghhhhhh!!! ๐Ÿ˜›

          I just removed that line ๐Ÿ˜›
          what I meant was that only SOlilo can call me Gillu..I would dislike it if anyone else calls me that ๐Ÿ˜›
          Noone calls me Gilli ๐Ÿ˜›

          *Indy refuses to listen to envious souls* ๐Ÿ˜›

          • Solilo permalink
            July 14, 2009 12:54 pm

            OG, it is GILLU not Gilli. GILLU was Mahadevi Verma’s pet Squirrel. Indy girl and I were discussing Verma’s work and since both of us like Gillu, I started calling her that. ๐Ÿ˜€

          • July 15, 2009 4:59 am

            wokay wokay……. ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› I get it ๐Ÿ˜›

            me- :P:P *Indy mutters a quick prayer to god*
            thank you for making OG understand this so quickly! ๐Ÿ˜€

          • July 22, 2009 3:06 am

            Even that additional light on his head is not working. ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜†

          • July 22, 2009 8:20 pm

            enlightenment comes from within ๐Ÿ˜› i dont need extra bulb lights………… ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜›

  29. July 15, 2009 1:56 am

    hey i will come back to write more here!!
    pakka.. your so short comments have kept me busy enough to come to the archives.. from whatever lil i have read you i felt glad to have stopped n read u.. reading some bloggers is like learning.. i am enjoying that..
    me- thanks Tara:)
    you are a sweetheart:)
    so short?
    *Indy wonders if this was a crack* ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€
    (((hugs))) I am hooked on to your blog too:)

  30. July 22, 2009 3:05 am

    Aah! this neck pain can be a pain in the neck. How are you now, Gillu? Take care.
    me- muah! ๐Ÿ™‚ only you can remember and ask ๐Ÿ™‚

  31. July 30, 2009 12:46 pm

    Just now stumbled on this page of yours,Indy! All that you’ve said about yourself is so inspiring,Abhi.And your honesty reflects in all your posts.

    Stay the way you are ๐Ÿ™‚

    HUGS & MUAHS ๐Ÿ™‚
    me- thank you so much Deeps:)
    you are such a sweetheart:) the number of comments you have written is just too cute:)

  32. July 31, 2009 11:34 am

    Read at Solilo’s that today’s your Bday !! Didn’t know how to wish you, the comments section is off there !!!

    So, here it is –

    me- thank you so very much Ums:)
    and welcome here too:)

  33. July 31, 2009 11:50 am

    Hey Happy Birthday!!!!!

    Solz lovely card for you on her blog directed me straight to ur abode with my wishes.. hope you get your comp functioning well soon (if it isn’t already)
    Lotsa wishes for happiness always,

    me- Thank you so much Tara ๐Ÿ™‚
    yes Solilo is special na?:)
    Her card was a beautiful surprise ๐Ÿ™‚
    she is a darling friend to have ๐Ÿ™‚
    comp’s all better now;)
    and thank you once again for all the wishes:)

  34. July 31, 2009 1:35 pm

    Back here again,Abhi! This time from Sols’ post!

    Many Many Happy Returns of the day,sweetheart! May all your wishes come true and may God bless you with all the goodness in life that you so rightfully deserve ๐Ÿ™‚

    Have a blast of a day ๐Ÿ™‚ !
    me- awww you are making me go aww a lot:)
    thank you and thank you Deeps:)
    overwhelmed with your love:)

    ((hugs)) muah! ๐Ÿ˜€

  35. July 31, 2009 8:26 pm

    Hey Indy….Happy birthday in advance !!!
    Have a Wonnnnnderful day and year ahead…
    Lottttttttttttts of {HUGS} to you..
    (Got to know from Solilos Blog.)
    kept hunting for ur email id, couldnt find it posting my wishes here ๐Ÿ™‚
    me- N yours were among the very first wishes here:) and I couldnt reply in time:
    (((hugs)) and thank you so much!:)
    also thanks for reminding me..need to put my email asap:)

  36. August 1, 2009 3:57 pm

    Birthday girl… I hope you are online tomorrow!!! Let me wish you in advance … Many, many happy returns and best wishes for tomorrow ๐Ÿ™‚ Hope your comp is working by then!!
    me((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))so many that you will lose of my fav’test bloggers ๐Ÿ™‚ muaH! ๐Ÿ˜€

  37. Solilo permalink
    August 2, 2009 12:42 am

    me- (((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))00I saw Sols… touched beyond words:) by this and so much more ๐Ÿ™‚

  38. August 2, 2009 12:09 pm

    Happy wala bday to you hai Abhi…. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Have a blast!!!

    me- thanks a lot Masood ๐Ÿ™‚ for the wishes here and on Twitter:)

  39. August 2, 2009 1:54 pm

    A Happy Friendship day to you,Indy!And have a great great b’day!

    me- (((hugs))) and muahs Deeps ๐Ÿ™‚

  40. August 5, 2009 10:47 am

    yaaayyyyy its Indy’s birthday….
    and I forgot to wish her:O
    but yayyyy she’l still treat me ๐Ÿ˜€
    errr… won’t she?:P
    me- LOL! ofcourse Indy will ๐Ÿ˜€

    wishes are never late or early..they are always needed ๐Ÿ˜€
    thank you! ๐Ÿ˜€

  41. August 8, 2009 12:51 pm

    Just saw your mood. Whatcha upto? ๐Ÿ˜‰ Ahem….

    me- kahaan?? kuch bhi toh nahin! ๐Ÿ™„

    *bholu face*


    creating some trouble for real life friends ๐Ÿ˜€ getting my own back ๐Ÿ˜€

    PS:- you are the sweetest friend ever! you actually take time to notice the moods and so much more:)

    • August 8, 2009 4:26 pm

      Yes. I want to know too…. ๐Ÿ˜‰
      me- ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€ nothing to worry about here

      *atleast not yet * :mrgreen:
      this time the trouble is for my real life friends..pranks being planned ๐Ÿ˜€

      • August 10, 2009 6:19 am

        Really?? :mrgreen: ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

        Do let us know soon the full story and if your prank succeeded. :mrgreeen:

        Which I’m sure it will. ๐Ÿ˜‰

  42. August 14, 2009 1:09 am

    Weekend coming up fri/saturday,thought would wish you in advance.

    Happy Independence Day to you,Abhi ๐Ÿ™‚ Hope the day and year bring in even more cheer to our country ๐Ÿ™‚

    Take care
    me- (((hugs)) and Happy Independence Day to you too Deeps:)
    Amen to your thoughts for India:)

  43. Alice permalink
    August 17, 2009 7:16 pm

    Rockstar!!!! ๐Ÿ˜€
    me- awww sweetheart ๐Ÿ˜€ ((hugs))

  44. August 26, 2009 5:20 pm

    Where you went again Indy madam????

    this teacher is irregular… ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜›
    me- ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› and back !!! ๐Ÿ˜€

  45. September 14, 2009 11:30 am

    You have got an EXCELLENT blog out here! ๐Ÿ™‚ I was just wondering how I missed such a blog till now!! And then I noticed that you started blogging only in Dec 2008, by which time I had already gone into my blogging hibernation… ๐Ÿ˜›

    But, now that I am back! Great to visit you.. and will be coming back soon! for more ๐Ÿ™‚

    me- welcome here Nova ๐Ÿ™‚ and thanks for those words ๐Ÿ™‚ smiling now:D
    will be hopping over to yours now ๐Ÿ™‚

  46. October 7, 2009 2:09 pm

    Where are you,Indy?Its been ages since I saw or read you. I’m missing your presence in the blogworld just as I’m sure,others are.
    I did see you hopping by a few bloggers for a fleeting moment!And I was hoping and waiting you’d grace my page too..but Alas!you’ve vanished again ๐Ÿ˜€

    Do be back soon ๐Ÿ™‚
    me- :)) I am back Deeps ๐Ÿ™‚ ((((((((((((hugs))))))))) you wrote so much ๐Ÿ™‚ muah! ๐Ÿ™‚

  47. October 7, 2009 9:00 pm

    you started blogging only in Dec 2008??? WOW __/\__
    me- ๐Ÿ˜€ I loved how you made that sign ๐Ÿ˜€ cute ๐Ÿ˜€

  48. October 15, 2009 8:37 pm

    oyeeeeeeeeee indy jiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
    Kitheee ho?
    me- I am here N ๐Ÿ™‚ muah! ๐Ÿ™‚

  49. October 29, 2009 10:40 pm

    yaad kiya dil ne kaha ho tum? ๐Ÿ™‚ where are you?? and how are you??
    me- aa gayi ๐Ÿ˜€ good and in looovvvee ๐Ÿ˜€

  50. October 31, 2009 2:34 pm

    it was fun reading some of the old posts… !!!!! sigh… I miss u even more !!

    me- awww you sweetheart ๐Ÿ™‚ you really are! ๐Ÿ™‚
    I missed your posts and your presence too Dhiren ๐Ÿ™‚

  51. November 26, 2009 6:39 pm

    how long ????

    this is just way too long !
    me- am back now Dhiren ๐Ÿ™‚

  52. December 16, 2009 6:28 am

    I came here as seen you nominated in Avent Garde award in Poonam’s blog in category of beautiful header….
    and yes ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€ it is beautiful…. I felt like knowing about you and came here….
    nice to know you….. I will be following you regularly. You decorated the blog quite nicely ๐Ÿ™‚ my pleasure to hop over here……

    me- thanks a lot MAhmud:) welcome here ๐Ÿ™‚ and thank you for following the blog:) pleasure to see you here ๐Ÿ™‚

  53. Harpreet Singh permalink
    December 21, 2009 11:59 pm

    Hi Indyeah,

    I just came across your site today. I just wanted to convey that I really appreciate what you have written about the 1984 riots. I just hope that some misguided members of my community, who get tacit support from the rogue state of Pakistan or stay in Canada and spread images of an imaginary repression, could see that there are individuals like you who display sanity and sense. I hope that they could see the contributions of individuals like you and of all those non Sikhs who spared no effort in saving the lives and property of their Sikh friends and neighbours in 1984. While they are justified in targetting those individuals who were involved in the 1984 riots, they must see sense and give up their highly unacceptable and suicidal dream of Khalistan as well as any crude methods of targetting innocent people at large which is alien to the Sikh faith.

    Harpreet Singh
    me- thank you for writing this Harpreet…I have highlighted your words..the ones that echo my thoughts too..

  54. December 25, 2009 8:34 am

    Gillu, Good to see you back. Now bless us with a post. ๐Ÿ˜‰


    ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€
    ((hugs)))muah! ๐Ÿ™‚

  55. December 25, 2009 4:09 pm

    Merry Christmas!!!!!!!


    me- and to you too Badz ๐Ÿ™‚ hope yours was a beautiful one too ๐Ÿ™‚
    ((hugs)) ๐Ÿ˜€

  56. January 6, 2010 8:25 am

    Lazy bum! write something. Enough with the gush-mush.

    me- :lol:! you are too cute Sols!
    muah! ๐Ÿ˜€

    oye sis of lazy bum! ๐Ÿ˜€ when are you writing !? ๐Ÿ˜›

    • January 8, 2010 2:27 am

      When you stop commenting. Hahahaha…

      Muah. Hugsie…
      me- ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜›

      • January 9, 2010 6:32 am

        That’s soo mean solilo. ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

        Hugs Indy!!!!!!!!!!!!
        I still love u!!!
        me- ((hugs) back ๐Ÿ™‚

      • January 10, 2010 1:17 am

        Now you have sunshine on your sidebar too? Hey bhaggu!
        me- you know why I was praying for sunshine na? ๐Ÿ˜€ and god Ji listened ๐Ÿ˜€

  57. tikulicious permalink
    January 9, 2010 3:13 pm

    came to your blog from Ritu’s . I also read your comments on Blogadda etc. loved the way you write. Will be reading your posts starting today. It is always a good learning process to visit blogs of fellow writers who are good.
    I glanced through the posts and see a lot of common interests. You are doing a great job here. Very neat blog I must say. thank you for sharing with us.
    me-welcome here Tikulicious:)
    and thank you so much for your words:) glad to see you here ๐Ÿ™‚ could you please leave your blog url?:) would love to visit you:)

  58. January 25, 2010 1:43 pm

    Gillu, 2010 is here. Now stop growing old and welcome the New Year with a new post.

    BTW love that 80s nostalgia on the sidebar. Aah! miss those days. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ
    me- you know what Sols? you are a treasure of a friend:) you know why? coz you notice everything…moods…the slightest of off days that I have…and then the way you get worried when we dont talk or write for even a day:) and thats why I adore having you as a friend:) you are a treasure:) really and truly:)
    will come back with a post just as soon as I am done with this darn fever:(

    • January 27, 2010 3:51 am

      Hehe the feelings are mutual. No mail or phone call for over 2 days without any reason worries me. See I knew you were ill. Get well soon, okay. We have lots of catching up to do. ๐Ÿ˜€
      me- am almost all well:) which means I can go yak yak again ๐Ÿ˜€ and the catching up part lil ol me is looking forward to ๐Ÿ˜‰

  59. January 30, 2010 1:21 am

    Oye! how could you make this mistake? On your old blog, I found out that ‘Lady with the lamp’ is not Ravi Verma painting at all. It is actually โ€˜Glow Of Hopeโ€™ by Haldenkar which is wrongly credited to Ravi Verma and now you go ahead and put it here.

    Check our conversation at Mandu’s

    I miss old Indy. ๐Ÿ˜‰
    me- arre! look at me! if you scroll the mouse over that painting na then it will read clearly that the artist is Haldenkar but I put it alongwith other RRV paintings…sheesh! ๐Ÿ˜ณ will rectify the mistake O’master Solilo! ๐Ÿ˜€

  60. February 14, 2010 11:32 pm

    Me no likey the punky mood feeling. Kya hua, Gilsum? ๐Ÿ˜€
    me- your Gillu is in a mood to kick some arse ๐Ÿ‘ฟ soon
    *evil laughter fades away* ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

    • February 15, 2010 3:44 am

      Jahanpanah tohfa kubool karo. Hahahaha…
      me ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜›

  61. seli permalink
    April 1, 2010 8:50 am

    wow……..this is one of the best blog that i’ve read……………..*2 thumbs up 4 U, dear*

    well….i found ur blog when i wanted to update my status on facebook..i’m thinking ’bout india en try to find why do i love india so damn much…
    oh Gosh…by reading ur blog, i just can say big thx to u coz i just feel i love india more and more….

    i’m from bali & i’m hindu…
    i’m so sure that u’ve known that bali and india have a similarity of hindu’s civilization…

    thx so much bcoz ur blog makes me want to improve my english…i like ur blog..makes me easier to learn bout english…*i’m jealous…huhuhu..i really want to speak english as fluent as u…* do u mind if i need ur help to teach me about english? u have facebook? i wanna add u as my friend….

    nice to now U Gal…

  62. April 1, 2010 12:03 pm

    ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ Read the post on Anna… ๐Ÿ™‚ Cant put down anything there, so I just thought I would drop by and give you a hug ๐Ÿ™‚

    As always, you make us think ๐Ÿ™‚ Got a new one for you at A Quest ๐Ÿ™‚

  63. May 13, 2010 12:25 pm

    Hellooooo..anybody there?? Time for an update please!

    I love this theme,Indy. Had this when I moved to WP .
    It looks really nice here with that beautiful header of yours ๐Ÿ™‚
    me- thats so sweet Deeps.
    Thanks a lot:)
    btw lovely DP:) was wondering who this is when I came back.

    Update? *sigh* rushing in and out of Delhi and with him at other times
    all blog topics go right outta my head then ๐Ÿ˜€

  64. May 20, 2010 1:19 pm

    Why did you turn off comments? I loved the post, these lines are moving –

    “And sometimes scattered young voices calling out for change and dying for it speak more loudly than that of a collective Khap Panchayat. But only to those who want to hear.”

    UP government has created Safe Marriage Cells to protect young couples.
    //UP district to have cell for safe marriages//
    If same gotra marriages are banned and made illegal it would become even more difficult for them to get any support.

    Madhu Kishwar should also keep in mind that those demanding these changes are allegedly involved in murders, rapes and extortion. Muthalik used the same logic while trying to excuse alleged molestations as attempts to save adult citizens from premarital relationships and drinking.
    me- turned off comments coz had a huge discussion on this with colleagues…pretty much covered all the aspects and got tired of it..

  65. July 7, 2010 10:08 pm

    I knows yous ares busys as hells :D!
    But, here’s a tag ๐Ÿ™‚
    me- I will take up this tag Ushus. (((((((((hugs)))))

  66. August 1, 2010 6:41 pm

    Happy Birthday, Sweetpie! Love ya loads! Muah Muah KJo style ๐Ÿ˜€
    me- I am missing you. (((((hugs)))))

  67. August 3, 2010 5:06 pm

    Happy Bday Indy KRS!!! Hugs and Muahs!!

    I am unfashionably late by a day…. but deri pe mat jao… bhavanao ko samjho

    *crafty waits while Indi KRS rolls eyes*

    KRS = ๐Ÿ™„ Crafty = :mrgreen:

    Hope you had a fantastic bday!!!!! And wish you a lovely year ahead!!

    You’re one of the amazing finds in this blogworld for me….. (((((((((((hugsssssss))))))))

    Wish you all the happiness sweet KRS! love you! MUAHS!!

  68. September 5, 2010 10:44 pm

    Muah! I listened to the entire clip of Tarana, and imagined a pigtailed little Meggie twirling ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚
    me- muah!:) ((((((hugs))))) *yes pigtails:D though it was a pain to make em out of such short hair ma says:D

  69. December 5, 2010 9:00 am

    And Meggie, congratulations… ๐Ÿ™‚ And God Bless these Peas ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚

  70. Solilo permalink
    March 7, 2011 12:08 pm

    You’ve got mail. ๐Ÿ˜€

  71. Solilo permalink
    March 29, 2011 2:19 am

    Indy girl! e-mail mila? Call, okay.

  72. August 1, 2011 8:48 pm

    Haaappppy Birthday for tomorrow ๐Ÿ™‚ God Bless, always! Hugs!

  73. Carlo permalink
    June 10, 2012 11:04 pm

    India is beautiful. I love India.

  74. July 14, 2012 7:57 pm

    Hello koi hai?

  75. July 31, 2012 9:00 pm

    Comments open karo na!

    me- and done Darling Ushus
    (hugs) you know why:)

    • August 2, 2012 9:09 am

      Yippee yayyy! I know! And let me… wish you Happy Birthday, ALL over again! I probably am, till the day is done, on different posts here ๐Ÿ˜€ :D! Lol! Have the best of the day, and of life itself, Indy gurl, you deserve it! God Bless!

      me -And who has that pulsating energy and joie de vivre that I am in awe of?The name starts with a U and ends with an S atleast in the way I call her ๐Ÿ˜€

  76. July 21, 2013 8:00 am

    Gillu, hugsie.

  77. Samjoth permalink
    February 9, 2015 12:09 pm

    Beautiful intro..!! Maybe not just beautiful, but honest to the core..And that is really profound !!
    Happy to come across your blog ..
    And hoping to stay in touch !!

  78. ShethP permalink
    October 29, 2015 3:51 pm

    Definitely an interesting approach to the “About” page! ๐Ÿ™‚ And, chocolates all the way. ๐Ÿ˜€


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